SIOUX FALLS, SD -
Christmas Day turned into a hostage situation, standoff and apparent suicide in Vermillion.
According to police, it seems to have started when a woman reported a
domestic dispute. Police say the suspect, the woman's husband, was
behind the 12 hour standoff. He was an armed man who held his two
children against their will in the home. He let his children go around
4:30 a.m. but was later found dead in his house.
Officers say it began when the suspect's wife reported a domestic dispute.
"Domestic violence is never a rare or isolated incident. It's usually a
pattern that happens in a cycle," Compass Center Executive Director
Patty Brooks said.
It may seem like there is more domestic violence during the holidays,
there is actually no increase. However, the cases she does see this time
of year are usually more violent.
"Holiday stressors like holiday shopping, finances, meal prep and
gift giving and that kind of thing like the family, basically adds fuel
to the fire," Brooks said.
The number of cases reported actually seems to decrease during the
holidays, but that is not necessarily an indicator of a shrinking
trend.
"They [families] want to get through the holidays. They want their
kids to have a Merry Christmas, they want to get along with their
families, so a lot of times they will push that under the rug," Brooks
said.
In fact, the Compass Center's case load is two to three times larger than it was a few years ago.
Anything can push a violent person over the edge and Brooks said it
is important to know the triggers, especially during stressful times of
the year.
"It seems very silly, but the timeouts, the taking a deep breath, the
counting to 10. Leaving the situations are all really good things if
you feel that's happening to you," Brooks said.
A compilation of daily news articles from around the United States about deaths (including both people and animals) that appear to occur in the context of a past or present intimate relationship, focusing on 2009-present. (NOTE: this blog is limited to incidents that appear in the media and are captured by our search terms. We recognize this is not an exhaustive portrayal of all deaths resulting from intimate violence.) When is society going to realize intimate violence makes victims of us all?
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